In this post, we’ll unpack all you need to know about Depolarisation, defining exactly what it is, what causes it, how to overcome it by creating Sexual Polarity and more.
What Is Depolarisation?
Depolarisation refers to the imbalance of masculine and feminine energies in a relationship. This occurs when both partners are channelling the same energy ― whether masculine or feminine. When this imbalance occurs, passion dies which causes the relationship to break down.
While two people channelling the same sexual energy can love eachother, they can never have passion. In order for there to be passion in a relationship, there needs to be sexual polarity ― the bigger the polarity between masculine and feminine energies, the bigger the sexual attraction and the more passion.
What Causes Depolarisation
Depolarisation can occur for two reasons:
Firstly, when one person doesn’t embody their innate sexual energy. For example, when a man with an innate masculine energy doesn’t embody his masculine energy or when a woman with an innate feminine energy doesn’t embody her feminine energy.
Secondly, when one person does something that suppresses their partner’s innate sexual energy. For example, when a man does something that suppresses a woman’s innate feminine energy or when a woman does something that suppresses a man’s innate masculine energy.
When a man doesn’t feel trusted, needed or appreciated, he will feel rejected and sexual polarity will collapse. When a woman doesn’t feel seen, safe or understood, she will feel rejected and sexual polarity will collapse.
When we feel rejected, we create masks in order to protect us from two fears:
- The fear of not being enough.
- The fear of not being loved.
Masks are a survival mechanism that protect us from getting hurt. However, they cause us to channel an energy that is not in alignment with our innate sexual energy.
Below are the five primary reasons why a man with an innate masculine energy creates a mask that causes him to channel feminine energy and why a woman with an innate feminine energy creates a mask that cause her to channel masculine energy.
5 Reasons Why A Man With An Innate Masculine Energy Creates A Mask
- Has a mother that teaches him that being masculine is bad and rewards pleasing behaviours.
- Has a father that dominates and overpowers him.
- When he gets hurt in a relationship.
- Is stressed.
- Is tired.
5 Reasons Why A Woman With An Innate Feminine Energy Creates A Mask
- Has a mother that teaches her never to depend on a man.
- Has a father that dominates and wants to make her stronger.
- When she gets hurt in a relationship.
- Is stressed.
- Is tired.
When you put on a mask, you lose your true identity and you can no longer be your true authentic self. In order to harness the power of sexual polarity and reclaim passion in your relationship, you must remove your masks and embrace your innate sexual energy.
How To Reclaim Sexual Polarity
The first step to any change is awareness. Therefore, in order to reclaim sexual polarity, both partners need to identify their innate sexual energy and what energy they are channelling in the relationship. Once you know this, you can take action in restoring balance.
In order to restore balance, the masculine partner needs to rediscover his innate masculine energy and embrace (instead of suppress) his partner’s feminine energy and the feminine partner needs to rediscover her innate feminine energy and embrace (instead of suppress) her partner’s masculine energy.
Sexual attraction can shift within seconds. When a man feels trusted, needed and appreciated and when a woman feels seen, safe and understood, they will both instantly shift from feeling rejected to feeling successful and the sexual attraction will be restored.
When you reclaim the sexual polarity in a relationship, you reclaim the passion.
Depolarisation occurs when there is no longer a play of masculine and feminine energies. This can happen when either one person doesn’t embody their innate sexual energy or when one person does something that suppresses their partner’s innate sexual energy.
When you become aware of your innate sexual energy, you can take the necessary action to ensure you are embodying your true authentic self. By doing so, you reclaim sexual polarity which will lead to a more passionate and fulfilling relationship.