In this post, we’ll unpack all you need to know about identity, defining exactly what it is, how it shapes us, the source of it, how to leverage it to achieve our goals and the life we desire and more.
What Is Identity?
Identity, also referred to as self-image, refers to the set of beliefs that we use to define who and what we are as a person. More simply, it is the Mental Model that we have of ourselves.
How It Shapes Us
As humans, we are hardwired to behave in a way that is consistent with our beliefs (about how we perceive ourselves and about how others perceive us) ― a phenomenon that is known in psychology as cognitive consonance.
Therefore, the beliefs (thoughts) we hold about ourselves ― who we are and what we are capable of ― determine our feelings, our feelings determine out actions and our actions ultimately determine our results ― our destiny. This is the Results Model in action.
“A human being always acts and feels and performs in accordance with what he imagines to be true about himself and his environment. This is a basic and fundamental law of mind. It is the way we are built.” ― Maxwell Maltz
The Source Of Your Identity
Our identity is heavily influenced by those around us. We internalise the beliefs and values of those around us. Unfortunately, these beliefs and values may not be aligned with our true authentic self. They may therefore sabotage our ability to achieve our goals and the life we desire. Thus, we must consciously take the time to define and construct our identity for ourselves.
How To Leverage Identity
The key to harnessing the power of identity is to consciously create beliefs and values that align with our goals and the life we desire.
Once we have defined these beliefs and values, we must embody them until they are wired so deeply into our subconscious that they become automatic.
It’s important to remember that our identity is an ever-evolving process. By constantly expanding our identity, we unlock more of our true potential and expand what is possible in our lives. Thus, in doing so, we become the Masters of our Destiny instead of Slaves to our Fate.
“The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson
Summary
Identity refers to the set of beliefs that we use to define who we are as individuals. It profoundly impacts how we think, feel, act and ultimately the results we achieve.
The key to harnessing this force is to create beliefs that align with our goals and the life we desire. Then we must embody those beliefs until they become automatic.
